I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.
Let’s take a quick look at several things about MJ.
His biography on the National Basketball Association (NBA) website states, “By acclamation, Michael Jordan is the greatest basketball player of all time.”Jordan was one of the most effectively marketed athletes of his generation and was instrumental in popularizing the NBA around the world in the 1980s and 1990s.
So to put it mildly, MJ was successful based on the viewpoint of success. To understand what MJ is talkin’ bout let’s define success. Thanks Wikipedia.
Success defined:
OK, I got that. Now that leads us to define failure.
Failure defined:
- the state or condition of not meeting a desirable or intended objective
- the opposite of success
OK, OK, I know that was a lot of set up, but I think, at least for me, I need to put a frame around the picture of my thoughts so I can see things clearly.
Failure Equals Success? NO, but to have a fighting chance to be successful there needs to be ground work done first to be able to call yourself a failure.
First, you have to have an object/goal. Once you have a desirable or intended objective, now you have something to shoot for. Secondly, you need to break that larger goal into smaller goals or steps. Thirdly, you start working your plan and now you can see progress. Until theses three things are done you can beat your head against a wall all day long, but don’t have the map to get to your success.
If these three steps are not done you can’t really fail because that doesn’t meet one part of the definition. It’s more of that objective/ goal that’s the needed part of the definition for success. If you don’t have a goal you can’t really fail. . . can you? I heard this quote a long time ago and it really has stuck. If you don’t have a goal you’re already there.
There are so many people that are drifting in the currents of life because they simply have no goals to measure their happiness. If you are in business, sports or jobs that can be very easily measured in sales or a score, you know, if your winning or loosing. What about success in your relationships, family, personal satisfaction and other areas in “life”. How do you measure this?
I only know my experience, but for me I never even thought about goals in my family. With outrageous divorce and climbing suicide rates in the last 30 to 50 years obviously something has changed. I think that we are now above just subsistence and survival and life is pretty easy. We go after all the ‘things’ that our society has to offer and when we get them that whole still isn’t filled, so we continue to look. I know I have really started to see the where the real value lies and am focusing on these things. What do you think? I would love to know.